Tara Westover and her family grew up preparing for the End of Days but, according to the government, she didn’t exist. She hadn’t been registered for a birth certificate. She had no school records because she’d never set foot in a classroom, and no medical records because her father didn’t believe in hospitals.
As she grew older, her father became more radical and her brother more violent. At sixteen, Tara knew she had to leave home. In doing so she discovered both the transformative power of education, and the price she had to pay for it.
I don’t read a lot of non-fiction and I think it’s even my first memoir but I wanted to read this novel that features on many lists.
I have a basic knowledge of Mormonism but Tara’s family are quite extreme in their belief. They (the parents in any case) would rather die than consult a doctor or a hospital, as is proven after a few horrible accidents where more than one member of the family has severe injuries. But they believe medicine will poison your body and her father is on the front line in the war with the Illuminati who run the hospitals and all the government instances. The 7 children of the family are home schooled but don’t receive any actual schooling as they are put to work either in the kitchen with their mother preparing ointments or in the junkyard with their father. I could quite well imagine how the farm at Buck’s Peak looked and how she ran around like a feral child.
Her life seems set out in stone but then, along with two of her brothers, she decides to study on her own, take a test and enroll in college. You can imagine her father is not happy about this and it is the first tear in the family because as Tara’s world widens, she realises that she was never allowed an opinion, her fathers visions of the world could not be questioned, and now she starts to have her own thoughts and opinions.
Educated was a distressing novel to read. Not only are her parents so far removed from reality with their distorted vision (religious nuts comes to mind if I’m honest) Tara also suffers physical and emotional abuse from one of her brothers (not sexually thankfully but if he had it would be a sad conclusion that even that wouldn’t have changed anything in this story). Tara is already an outsider when she speaks up about her brother and it might be that that made their parents choice who to believe easier to make. Sadly, they don’t take her side and her other siblings are pressured into making the same choice. I felt the betrayal by her parents cutting very deep with me, and it frustrated me how she tries to reach out and mend things time and time again by returning home.
I loved seeing how she takes control of her life and not be dictated any longer by a voice without reason. I felt very disappointed in her parents, especially in her mother who lies to her and it is clear she knows very well what the real situation is. I saw the struggle and the pull of her family until the very last pages and it made me sad for her.
Educated is a powerful and thought provoking novel that I won’t easily forget.
I bought an ecopy of this novel. This is my honest opinion.
I completely agree that this is a thought provoking book not easily forgotten. I read it a couple years ago and it still haunts me. It is the only memoir that I read as an adult, to hold me like this.
Anytime someone asks whether they should read this, I say yes. I forewarn them that it starts slow, and doesn’t let go of you for years, but yes, it should be read.
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It’s not really a happy story but I agree that it’s well worth recommending to others and I agree that it’s one that is memorable. I read it after hearing so much about it from others as well. Thank you for letting me know your experience reading it!
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Great review. I read this for my book club a couple of years ago and it has really stayed with me
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I can certainly see it staying with me too!
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Sounds like this will be a hard read but, in the end, a worthwhile one.
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It’s a true story, that makes it so harrowing. It’s quite impressive that Tara herself went to school for the first time at the age of 17 and was such a success. If you want to read a memoir, this is one for the list 😉
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I always feel I should read more memoir, but the last two I did read were appalling and so, I’m hesitant to try again.
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Was it the content or the writing? I did notice in this one too that it could have been written in a smoother way, more ‘like a story’ instead of jumping from one anecdote to the other but it didn’t bother me here because I never forgot it wasn’t a fiction story this way.
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Her parents annoyed me so much Inge especially when they were children! Great review Inge!
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Yes their resistance and actions made me sad and frustrated! Thank you Nicki!
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This is such a good book! I loved reading it. I’m glad you read and enjoyed it as well. Excellent review, Inge!
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Thank you Nikola! Great to hear we share the same thoughts about this novel!
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I’ve had this audiobook forever! Thanks for a powerful review, Inge💜 You’ve given me a reason to give it a try.
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Ah wonderful, I’m happy to have given you that necessary nudge to bump it up the list. I also had this novel on my e-reader for years before picking it up recently and I’m happy I finally read it.
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Excellent review, Inge! I recently finished the audiobook and it’s very powerful and at times surreal.
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Thank yo Stephen! Finding out that we both enjoyed this novel makes me very happy!
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Fab review! I’m glad to hear Educated did end up working for you. I’m in the unpopular opinion group with this one myself. xD
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Oh I’m sorry to hear that it didn’t work out for you. Maybe I should have been a bit more sceptical too but I did not think too deeply about how much she might have exaggerated things. The only thing I did remark as well was that she flew home quite a few times.
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I guess I read it at a time where I was being critical at everything haha. Definitely wasn’t in the mood to take things with a grain of salt back when I read it. 😉 I’m glad it worked better for you though.
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I have this book, but haven’t read it yet. Your review is simply glowing. Guess I should get to it sooner rather than later!
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I had it for a long time too and I’m happy I read it now, it’s a memorable novel. I hope you’ll enjoy it too when you read it. Thank you lovely!
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I want to read this one as well! I am glad you enjoyed it so much, especially since you don’t read too much nonfiction. To be honest, I think there are a lot of great memoirs out there. Sometimes they hit harder than fiction, because you know it all really happened! Great review!
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Thank you Stargazer! I knew this one’s on your list. I am afraid that you’ll be more sceptical though in ‘believing’ the story. I chose to take it in like it was written, even if there were a lot of accidents, tragedies etc (with maybe a pinch of salt too) and that did make me enjoy it more. Just a forewarning if you decide to pick it up. I’d definitely want to read more memoirs like this (I’m not into the football player’s / musician’s memoir etc).
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Thanks Inge. I am not into celebrity memoirs either.
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This sounds sad and it would make me so angry and disappointed. I hate extremism and rigidity in things and thoughts. It ruins people and their life and it is always hard to come out of it. Amazing review!
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Thank you Yesha! It’s a story of negatives and positives, as is real life. It’s an eye-opener of a novel how belief can be the most important thing for people. Thank you!
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